Some lowlife shoved me to the ground and attempted to rob me.
Months later, I walked into a late-night bar, and there he was, the same guy, belting out excruciating karaoke.
I had met this shmuck one week earlier in another bar, but failed to recognise him on that occasion. Encountering him in a dimly lit venue, more akin to that shadowy street where the assault occurred, stirred my memory.
I spoke to a member of staff, “Excuse me, I’m not going to make a fuss, but there is a guy in here who tried to mug me a while back,” I explained. “Would you mind if I left my bag behind the bar… just in case he gets any ideas?”
They kindly took my possessions for safekeeping.
One week earlier… I was on a ‘hot lesbian date’.
A female friend and I had met for a post-Christmas catch-up at The Loft when a ruckus erupted. Some guy crashed in from the outdoor area in a fury, venting his rage on a pile of faux-Christmas gift decorations by the entrance. He had a right old tantrum, kicking and stomping on boxes, then stormed out, leaving staff and customers of this (usually relaxed) cocktail bar shaken and stirred.
Moments later, he burst back in to take out his ire on one more parcel, with a final petulant stamp, before ultimately departing.
My companion looked agog, “What was that all about?!!”
“Maybe he’s just realised that the giftboxes are empty,” I suggested, “and he really wanted an Xbox.”
This parcel smashing grinch wasn’t my wannabe mugger. I was to encounter him later that evening in a different pub.
It was The Fox where we were approached by some sad shambles of a man, who’d clearly had too much to drink on an empty head.
“Are you two together?” he asked, in a spray of spittle and foul breath.
“No,” I told him, “I’m gay and she’s lesbian.”
Once he realised that we weren’t going to buy him a drink (or his inebriated line in chat up), he staggered away, leaving a stench of pungent body odour and rotten teeth (Yes, he’s quite the catch).
It wasn’t long before this rank Romeo returned, with the same opening line.
“No,” I reiterated, “I’m a poof and she’s a dyke.”
Not to be deterred, the rover returned and asked again.
“I’m a shirt-lifter and she’s a rug-muncher!”
I didn’t realise, on that evening, that this was the scum who’d attacked me.
One week later… in a venue filled with dry ice and spinning spotlights, the penny finally dropped.
With my bag safely stowed behind the bar, I confidently strowed toward my assailant.
“You’ve been in the wars,” I said, commenting on his blackeye and scuffed face.
“Aye,” he acknowledged, then hit me with his standard mantra, “Would you buy me a drink?”
I took a moment to pointedly savour my own beer… then delighted in telling him, “No.”
He clearly had no recollection of ever having met me before… in any circumstances… and certainly didn’t recall grappling me into a bush.
“I was out with a friend, last week,” I reminded him. “We should send her a photo.”
It’s not many a mugger who poses for a selfie
I immediately sent my newly acquired ‘mugshot’ to select friends and family.
Worried responses began to appear in my notifications:
‘Are you fuckin insane?!”
‘Get out of there now!’
‘You are playing with fire, dear.’
‘Be careful.’
And… ‘Please don’t take him home.’
One friend and her parents were considering calling UK cops… from Canada.
I assured all concerned that I was in no danger (and certainly had no intention of picking him up), with the bravado of a man who believes himself to possess nine lives of a cat…. and the luck of the devil.
Muggins was too drunk and too stooooopid to be a threat to anyone.
Several people I know were surprised I didn’t call the police, but what would have been the point? It was all water under the bridge (where he presumably lives). He’s just a sad case, who doesn’t need me adding to his woes. I am sure he is more than capable of doing that for himself.
This tale can stand as retribution. A public shaming. The equivalent of being paraded down Hurst Street whilst pelted with rotten veg and used condoms.
In retrospect, I should have bought him that drink he so desperately wanted, then took a detour to the toilets… and pissed in it.
Revenge is a drink best served… lukewarm.
Oh well, there’s always next time. I am sure our paths will cross again, as he does seem to keep popping up… like an unflushed turd.